Romance 101... Who knew?
I copied these from a website peddling romance ideas. Who knew I was so damn romantic?? Somehow I doubt many women would see most of these as a romantic gesture. Maybe the key is to not do anything most of the time so when you do ANYTHING it is seen as some type of gesture? These romantic gestures are quick and easy ways to show your love. Often times the most romantic gestures are the small acts we choose to do every day. This extensive list of 101 romantic gestures will help you be more creative in how you show your love. 1. Massage her feet 2. Clean her car 3. Stick a post-it love note in the kitchen 4. Snuggle 5. Make a romantic mix CD 6. Dance under the stars (with your mix CD playing from the car) 7. Hide love notes in her house and car (make sure she'll find them fairly soon) 8. Have an undisturbed conversation (turn off phones, tv, computer etc.) 9. Light every candle you have to set a seductive, intimate mood 10. Pick up a pie or cake for dessert 11. Do the laundry 12. Write a message on the mirror with a bar of soap 13. Make a calender with photos of both of you together 14. Unwind with a glass of wine 15. Pick her up and carry her to the bed or couch 16. Complete her Honey-Do list 17. Download a new ring to her cell phone for your calls 18. Share things about your day (work, family, clients, events) 19. Restock the cabinets with her favorite food or drink (don't forget to leave a note with it) 20. Hold hands 21. Change her oil 22. Give a sincere compliment 23. Go on a walk together 24. Run your fingers through her hair and give her a head rub 25. Go for a joy ride on a scenic road 26. Fold cloths during a game or on your tv show commercials 27. Change her computer screen saver to a love message 28. Cook a meal together 29. Do a slow dance after dinner 30. Kiss when you leave 31. Help her with a project 32. Thank her for a meal she cooked 33. Go grocery shopping together 34. Have a sunrise coffee date (even if it's just from your deck or window) 35. Hold each other during a big storm 36. Put the toilet seat down (let her know you did it for her) 37. Slip a love note in her purse or work tote 38. Spend 30 mins power cleaning together and 30 mins passionately lovin 39. Waltz around the room during a commercial break 40. Kiss when you arrive 41. Make dinner for her 42. Say "I love you because ______" 43. Find out one of her fantasies and make it happen 44. Pay her a compliment in front of people you know 45. Make a "10 favorite memories together" list 46. Do yard work (shovel snow, rake leaves, mow, prune, plant) 47. Send a love ransom note with cut out letters 48. Spend time learning/doing her hobby with her 49. Stop at a scenic outlook enjoy the view and each other 50. Get a sensual game to play together 51. Take the garbage out 52. Put a love note with her lunch 53. Go on a bike ride or roller blade together 54. Bring her breakfast or coffee in bed 55. Open doors for her 56. Fix something 57. Leave some Hershey kisses on the pillow 58. Play if/then. If you ______, then I'll ______ 59. Tell her you are proud of her 60. Dance to a classic 80's song 61. Carry her bags/boxes/books 62. Send a thinking of you email 63. Bake a cake and decorate it with a creative message 64. Act out her favorite love scene from a movie 65. Make a "10 things I love about you" list 66. Help with or do the dishes 67. Write a love note on her calender or in her planner 68. Collect a wild flower bouquet for her 69. Tell her you like her style 70. Kiss each of her finger tips 71. Send a romantic greeting 72. Give a midday call 73. Serenade her with a cheesy love song (in the privacy of your home) 74. Have a quickie somewhere new 75. Whisper sweet nothings in her ear 76. Take some scandalous photos together or of each other 77. Write a love message on the beach or in fresh snow 78. Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier and snuggle in the morning 79. Take a minute to enjoy the sunset together 80. Take a romantic bath 81. Pull out her chair before sitting 82. Give her a big, long hug 83. Make a favorite things about you list 84. Plant a tree or flowers together 85. Let her know that she is the perfect match for you 86. Vacuum, dust or clean the toilet 87. Leave a goofy love message on her phone 88. Experiment with chocolate body paints 89. Make an "I love the ways you love me" list 90. Rub each other down in the shower 91. Be her slave for a day 92. Make a cheesy love poem 93. Make a meal together 94. Pack something special with her lunch (kisses, a note, her favorite snack) 95. Have a breakfast date discuss your plans for the day 96. Take care of car maintenance (oil, tire rotation, check fluids) 97. Express appreciation for specific things she does for you 98. Massage her neck and shoulders 99. Make her a gift 100. Play footsie 101. Offer to help with anything You may be really good at doing some of these romantic gestures. Use this list to pick up a few more romantic gestures and apply them to your relationship. Put your own twist on some of the ideas for a personal and unique romantic gesture!
7 comments:
Here's how much of a Girl School failure I am... there are only a fraction of these that actually 1) make sense to me, and 2) appeal to me as "romantic."
Sunrise coffee date: love it. MSU and I have our coffee together every morning. I would TOTALLY miss it if we didn't do it any more.
So many of these ideas are about talking. It's funny, because I remember when I was a stay-at-home mom, I LONGED for adult conversation, waited for MSU to come home so he could tell me about his day and I could somehow feel connected to that other world.
Now, at the end of the day, talking is the LAST thing I want to do. Listening is a close second. I guess romance really depends on the woman and also on what she spends her day doing.
I am musing on this topic, RT! Thanks for posting!
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I don't know that taking care of my car maintenance, taking my garbage out, or doing my yard work is romantic.
For me, I get a nice warm feeling when James and I sit outside, bundled up in warm clothes or a blanket and watch the stars for a bit. It's nice to take in the crisp air, and be totally at ease with someone in the dark.
I also like it when he initiates hand holding (which doesn't happen very often) because knowing that he is thinking about physical contact with me makes me feel important to him at that moment.
It seems like the longer we're married, the less important it is to him to make me feel special. Or that he holds me as someone special to him (if that makes sense.)
But having said that, it's hard to dedicate yourself to making a romantic gesture after you've worked all day, taken care of the kids, done the household chores, and dealt with all the other things life has thrown at you.
I'm totally thinking about copying your post though, so I can quietly suggest some romance in my life too!
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I have to disagree with Jen. I think someone wanting to maintain my car is very romantic, it means he wants to be around me doing things that aren't necessary fun. I suppose it means he wants to do things for me - I feel cared for.
But then watching DVD's in bed together wearing jogging bottoms and his superman T-Shirt. That's romantic too :)
I think I might do a romance post too :)
36. Put the toilet seat down (let her know you did it for her)
LOLOLOL! :')
'let her know you did it'. Urr thanks.
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